Solve the Mystery of Your “People Problems”
(aka Feeling at Home … Being Human)


“Vika … is a master communicator [with] a masterful understanding….
Both my marriage and my business have benefitted a great deal….
And the “Solve the Mystery” workshop knocked my socks off.
— Tom Esch, President, Esch Consulting, LLC, Minneapolis, MN


“I cannot recommend this enough.
It’s fascinating, full of learning, absolutely life-changing.”
— Tiffany B.C., Portland, OR


“I got more out of this session than I have gotten from any other NVC group.”
— O.H., Portland, OR


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This acclaimed workshop distills key findings from Interpersonal Neurobiology, Attachment Theory,
Somatics, NVC/Compassionate Communication, and Thriving Life principles into
down-to-earth, powerful stories, experiential learning, and
easy-to-understand tools you can take with you and immediately begin to use

to resolve your “people problems” at home, in your community, and at work.

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Are you having “people problems”?

Are your “people problems” costing you time, money, happiness, or health?

What if you understood what’s going on when things “go wrong” …

and what you can do about it that actually works?

You probably want to be heard and understood. To have the other person see your point of view. To come to agreement without much confusion or struggle. To understand other people’s choices and behavior.

I bet you want to feel secure, relaxed, and know that you’re cared about.  You want things to go smoothly.

And ideally, you’d like to really enjoy each other and feel great about your relationship.

Unfortunately, we’re all been taught a lot of ways to try to communicate that just don’t work.  And often make things worse.  (MUCH worse…)

All too often, our best efforts are horribly misunderstood…


Does This Sound Familiar?

The truth is, even psychologists haven’t had any idea what makes people tick,
what creates or restores understanding or positive connection, or what’s going on when people say and do things that seem a little crazy to us.

Until now.


Thanks to key advances in our understanding of how stress affects our brains and our relationships, we now have genuinely effective answers to these questions.



This training has been praised by PhD Psychologists, Certified NVC Trainers, and highly experienced therapists as one of the most powerful and helpful they’ve ever seen.


Bring the “people problems” you’re facing in your life and discover:

  • How to Keep Relationship Difficulties from Draining Your Time, Money, Happiness, or Health
  • The #1 Sure-Fire Way To Make Things Worse (there’s about a 99% chance that you’re doing this)
  • Why We So Often Don’t Agree with Others about “What Happened,” and what you can do to resolve that
  • What Creates “Crazy” Behavior in us and others (because we ALL do it), why compassion is such an essential response, and how to minimize how often it happens and the damage it can cause
  • The 6 Different Brain States that we humans have, and what you can reasonably expect from yourself or others, when in each one of them (one of the most powerful tools you will ever use; perfect to take home to your kids, too!)
  • Why People Break Agreements without even seeming to care about the impact on us, and how you can prevent this
  • How to Restore a Sense of Safety, Calm, and Choice when things aren’t going so well, right in the moment
  • Why Being Compassionate or Empathetic Doesn’t Always Help — and can even make things worse — and how to know when NOT to offer these
  • Why Pointing Out “The Facts” Doesn’t Always Help — and can even make things worse — and how to know when NOT to do this
  • A 4-Step Guide to Effective Communication and Thriving Relationships that consistency creates genuine understanding, respect, peace, and thriving … and often makes our dearest connecting dreams come true   (NOTE: Although elements of NVC are part of all that I offer, these are not the same as the 4 basic steps of NVC)

Come be astonished. Transform confusing or even crazy moments with clarity, compassion, and empowerment … in less than a weekend.


THIS WORKSHOP IS FOR YOU, if you’re having “people problems,” including:

  • Couples
  • Parents
  • Singles getting back into dating (or wondering what happened in the past)
  • Neighbors
  • Teachers
  • Coaches
  • NVC Practitioners and Trainers (even CNVC Certified Trainers  say this the most practical, easy-to-understand approach to NVC they’ve ever seen)
  • Therapists, Counselors, and Social Workers
  • Health Care Professionals
  • Small Business Owners
  • Corporate Managers, especially HR and Customer Service
  • Politicians
  • Activists
  • Anyone working with individuals or groups
  • Anyone who wants to better understand themselves or other people


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“[Vika’s] understanding and practice of NVC (including her integration of
brain science, NVC, and her Thriving Life principles) is so impressive,

I’ve integrated key elements of her approach into my own work.
— Fred Sly, PhD, CNVC Certified Trainer, Portland OR USA




Vika Miller, MA
Relationship Coach



  • Happy Valley, OR*  (CareOregon Insurance Accepted!)
    January 8, 15, and 22 (3 consecutive Tuesdays)
  • Minneapolis, MN  
    May 2019 (details coming winter 2019)

* location details provided with your registration, we want to make sure there’s room for everyone!



  • $0 CareOregon Policyholders (Happy Valley series only)
  • $95 Students and Special Circumstances (partial scholarship program)
  • $195 Standard Tuition
  • $295 Patron Contribution (helps fund our partial scholarship program)

100% Money-Back Satisfaction Guaranteed.

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