Our Thrive Webinars offer a chance for anyone to drop in and explore topics, questions, challenges, and tools that strengthen our capacity to TRULY THRIVE in our everyday lives.


At the beginning of each webinar, Vika provides an overview of the topic, creating a Thriving Life container of compassion, dignity, shared humanity, authentic power, and humor.

Then the space will be opened for us to weave together our questions, challenges, experience, discoveries, and wisdom.


Your first webinar is FREE (choose any live or recorded webinar).



  • 75 minute presentation, with community exploration
  • 45 minute OPTIONAL in-depth community discussion
  • mp3 audio recording automatically emailed to everyone who registers


In a quick 75 minutes we’ll “look under the hood” of being human, and with humor and clarity explore things like:

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  • AMAZING DATING and ROMANCE (TBA): We all have challenges and disappointments in dating and romance. Find out how to avoid the 3 Perilous Pitfalls that are pretty much guaranteed to prevent us from getting what we want (and create what we don’t want) in our search to find and sustain romantic connection. You’ll also discover the 7 Relationship Readiness Skills and learn what you can do to develop your relationship readiness.



Come dip your toe in and:

  • Enjoy the Community of Like-Hearted Others
  • Reconnect with and Share Your Inner Wisdom, Authentic Power, and Peace
  • Get Support and Empowerment Around What Challenges You
  • Discover New Ways to Blossom Your THRIVING


Participants will get to choose whether their video is shown or not, and also have the option to participate only by telephone.

Recordings are provided to all who register; if you can’t participate live, don’t worry, just register to automatically get the recording.

WEBINAR (VIDEO) PARTICIPANTS: Please use a headset when participating, this ensures you can hear us and we can hear you. Even a $15-$20 headset makes a big difference.

WEBINAR and PHONE PARTICIPANTS: Please be in a quiet location when participating, this helps everyone hear well and allows us to create a quality recording.


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The ones with the most votes will be scheduled next!


  • LOVE:  What is love? (both romantic and nonromantic)  Why is it so painful so often?  How can we avoid (most of) the pain and still get to enjoy what’s great about love?  How can we tell when someone really loves us?  And what are the 3 Love-Eroding Traps we unwitting fall into that inevitably undermine the caring, responsiveness, harmony, and peace that we long for?  (This webinar will be of interest for all kinds of love relationships, both romantic and nonromantic.)
  • AUTHENTICITY, VULNERABILITY, and SAFETY : Authenticity and vulnerability, offered at the right times, are essential for creating and sustaining connection, trust, and intimacy in all our relationships. What’s the difference between authenticity and vulnerability? How can we be real and create connection and trust, and still feel –and actually be — emotionally safe at work and in our closer personal relationships?  How can we tell when it’s the right time to be vulnerable with someone?  How can we tell if it’s safe to be vulnerable with someone?  What can we do when someone is being “too real” or “too vulnerable” for our comfort? Come explore these and your own questions with us!
  • HAVING YOUR “OUCH” BE HEARD (GIVING FEEDBACK/SURVIVING CRITICISM):  Something has happened, and it really didn’t feel good to you or someone else.  You both want to get it resolved, and you’d be willing to talk about it, but you can remember so many times when talking just made it worse.  What’s going on here? How can we say “ouch” (give important relationship feedback) and really be heard, taken seriously, and have things actually go differently in the future?  What can we do when we hear what seems like unfair criticism coming at us, and naturally want to defend ourselves?
  • UPSETS OF ALL FLAVORS (fight, flight, appease, freeze):  What’s going on, in those moments when we suddenly feel intensely angry, anxious, appeasing, confused, or numb?  Does it really mean that we or somebody else is “bad” or “wrong”?  Why does it seem to happen mainly with certain people, relationships, or situations? How can we stay in the driver’s seat of our life more (most) of the time?   (To get started right away on this topic, check out the free Broken Toe Video and the Thriving Fundamentals Seminar – Solve the Mystery of Your “People Problems.”)
  • The PROFOUND POWER of PRIMARY RELATIONSHIP with OURSELF:  Whether we’re single or partnered, a whole new world of self-worth, wholeness, fulfillment, and peace become available when we stop making our relationship(s) with someone else the first and most important thing in our lives.  Is prioritizing our self-care and pursuing our own most important dreams “selfish”?   What does it do to our most cherished relationships, when we put connection with and care for ourselves ahead of connection with others?  At what point does our focus on ourselves begin to block or damage our connection with others? Join us to learn how to navigate this profoundly powerful, fulfilling territory.
  • AMAZING *ONLINE* DATING: How do we write a profile that will attract the kind of person who would be a good match for us, who will also be genuinely interested in US?   How do we tell who’s worth meeting and who isn’t?  What are the 5 Sanity-Saving Steps we can take to avoid spending too much time before finding out someone isn’t right for us?
  • CONTROL and PERFECTIONISM:   Is “control” a life-need?  If not, how do we make sure things work out for us?  What are we really longing for, in our perfectionism?  And what does any of this have to do with respect and healthy boundaries?
  • RESPECT:   What is “respect” and why is it so important?  Can respect be earned or lost?  What’s going on, when people who say they “love” us don’t seem to “respect” us, and what can we do to get the “respect” we know we deserve?
  • TRUST:   What do we mean, when we say we “trust” someone?  How can we tell if someone is trustworthy?  And how can we heal when our trust has been broken?
  • and more.  Email me your requests!





Vika Miller, MA and CNVC Certification candidate

Click here for more information about Vika.



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  • Your first webinar is FREE
  • $20 per webinar
  • Mp3 audio recordings included for everyone who registers









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